Moral dilemma- I am currently "helping" the prostate cancer research dept. by providing details of my family history,my sister was a huge help when she visited last week,now here's the dilemma,I have now received a rather big form to fill in on my personal erm history,being a bloke form filling isn't my forte and my good lady wife has said she will help me,all goes well until page 4 when the nitty gritty questions pop up......1- how many partners have you had ...yikes,do I tell the 100% truth at the risk of upsetting aforementioned loved one( I was a bit of a lothario in my teens,twenties etc) I guess I will have to fill that one in by myself in a darkened room .
Poker has been going in feasibly well,as mentioned previously and I have splashed out on gifts for immediate family,today I am going into town with my daughter to purchase some Yankee candles which my wife loves.
My daughter has got a job it's in a care home and she told me that she mentioned in the interview my condition and how she has been helping me,so I am taking the credit for that too good luck at the tables all.
This,that,and a bit of the other. Moral dilemma- I am currently "helping" the prostate cancer research dept. by providing details of my family history,my sister was a huge help when she visited last week,now here's the dilemma,I have now received a rather big form to fill in on my personal erm history,being a bloke form filling isn't my forte and my good lady wife has said she will help me,all goes well until page 4 when the nitty gritty questions pop up......1- how many partners have you had ...yikes,do I tell the 100% truth at the risk of upsetting aforementioned loved one( I was a bit of a lothario in my teens,twenties etc) I guess I will have to fill that one in by myself in a darkened room . Poker has been going in feasibly well,as mentioned previously and I have splashed out on gifts for immediate family,today I am going into town with my daughter to purchase some Yankee candles which my wife loves. My daughter has got a job it's in a care home and she told me that she mentioned in the interview my condition and how she has been helping me,so I am taking the credit for that too good luck at the tables all. Posted by tomgoodun
Tom.....you need to use your poker skills on that one and bluff big time so you do not upset the wife with the truth. Speaking from personnel experience, telling the 'real' number of exes is never a good thing....even if who you are telling it to says they will understand no matter what the figure. They wont. Perhaps fill in that bit yourself after the rest is complete
Glad you are treating the family to some gifts. Dont forget to treat yourself though! Also glad that your daughter has found some employment.
Maybe try and soften the true figure by telling her that all that experience you had in your youth has stood you in good stead and helped you take her to Nirvana on many an occasion? (I can't believe I just said that)
is there any link between prostrate cancer and number of partners in one's youth?
if not it won't matter too much is you round down the number
or based on your comment maybe take logs (natural logs of course)
edit: so over 21 female partners lowers the risk according to some recent survey. or more likely it's not a factor. round it down tom and everyone can stay happy.
is there any link between prostrate cancer and number of partners in one's youth? if not it won't matter too much is you round down the number or based on your comment maybe take logs (natural logs of course) edit: so over 21 female partners lowers the risk according to some recent survey. or more likely it's not a factor. round it down tom and everyone can stay happy. Posted by GELDY
It's not like you remember exact numbers anyway, is it?
Who in their right mind keeps written documentation of the number of women they have slept with/kissed/touched over the jumper... and/or otherwise? And noted down dates, how long it lasted, and marks out of ten? It's not like you've kept the list neatly folded in the back of a heavy encyclopaedia for posterity, is it? And you certainly don't look at it every now and then and reminisce about how soft Michelle's lips were or how Kirstin's perfume used to catch in the back of your throat whenever you stroked her hair.
all comments and advice duly noted,thanks for that chaps.i remember an old flame asking that very question and will never forget the look on her face after we both wrote down the figures and hers were single figures,mine was in the Roman numerals beginning with L.. I The next question is,have you ever paid to sleep with a woman...and the next,how often do you erm...rhymes with faster late. Wow, now try to answer that one with someone looking over your shoulder lol.
I see the Cheltenham horse racing meeting started today,I am doing the naps table in the betting thread which involves picking a horse for each day of the meeting. I was reading yesterday's paper this morning at 5am whilst eating my cornflakes and it stated it starts tomorrow ( today) bear with me ,and being not quite with it I obviously thought it meant Wednesday so I have missed the first pick...doh.
The next question is,have you ever paid to sleep with a woman...and the next,how often do you erm...rhymes with faster late. Wow, now try to answer that one with someone looking over your shoulder lol. Posted by tomgoodun
You should try having to faster late with someone looking over your shoulder
hi tom hows it going I haven't called in for a week or so as i couldn't cross the picket line if you remember I had a rant
about the free roll promotion decision that didn't go my way.
well i went on strike on the Tuesday after the dtds firstly not playing then turned the heat up later in the week by calling my cheer leader skills out in sympathy any way after i sent an e-mail on Friday where i asked if they even realised I was on
strike they must have realised the sky community is better off with db than without and a gesture of goodwill was
enough to get the blockade lifted.
well I could set a ddt record on Monday the last two weeks i have finished stone last both times, I think we did briefly
share a table a couple of times on Monday I was struggling to keep more that one table open at a time it was like a marxs
brothers film that didn't help.
on a brighter note I cashed on Tuesday and Wednesday to the tune of about £25 quid and am in front on the month.
take care and i hope we can share a table on Monday for a bit longer a final would be nice dbxxx
Thought I would do a quick update for avid? Readers, life-wise I have been rather hormonal of late, I have been taking offence at pretty much every comment,and dragging down others around me,when i have time to reflect after I can see what a complete idiot I am being but at the time I just go over the top with my responses,so much so that I had a go at the boss at work last week,all my points were justified but when you are raising your voice and throwing in a few choice words the point of "discussion" kinda gets lost...having had time to reflect I am going to try my best next week to keep my mouth shut and count to at least 5 before I consider a retort.
Poker wise I have been doing ok ish, finished 2nd in the deep stack ,well played to stoke beating me fair and square heads up,I was invited by hhry to play for the notorious outlaws in the dtd games,I was a bit surprised to say the least as on looking on their team I would say I am the chap who brings the oranges on at half time,I accepted the offer and did ok the first week as I had to justify my inclusion on the team somehow apologies to anyone on tpt who I may have upset on the teams front,to me I am still playing as an individual (you know,like ronaldo does;) having a bit of fun along the way is a big plus as I need all the distractions I can get at present,cheers hrry and Sam for the chuckles.
More life stuff- As mentioned before my wife and I shall be moving house soon, we are due to exchange contracts next week,now here's the head f... , I have done a lot of work in this house,I work in the joinery business so I like to think I know what I am doing, I have made and installed pretty much all of the windows,all 'A' Rated (replacing the old tilt and turn metal ones which were a nuisance,ask any woman if she can get curtains on them beggars) the ones I have made and fitted were made out of Accoya ,a modified timber which has excellent properties, now I have to provide an indemnity policy at my own **** cost because they were not fitted by a fensa registered installer,I told the wife ok then I will take them out and put the old ones back in! She rather put me in my place then, see I told you I was being hormonal....
We have a porch which was built in 1977,we moved into this one in 2000, planning permission was granted unconditionally at the time but apparently there is a restrictive covenant which should have been applied to be removed but wasn't,guess who has to pay for that? Yup me....what the **** **** is going on here,I also said I will take the porch down but my wife didn't agree with that either,ho hum.
I have my follow up appointment with the consultant next Tuesday,fingers crossed for good news.
Tuesday 31st, or April 7th, Tom? Posted by Tikay10
Ah see my error, it is tomorrow the 31st of March. The hospital rang when I wasn't in and asked my wife if it was ok to change the date, she politely declined the offer, also it is with a different consultant as the one I have been seeing doesn't have a clinic at my local hospital anymore, when I rang to confirm they said the one I will be seeing will have my history and results so fingers crossed firstly for the results of my recent blood test and secondly I don't get mistaken for a young girl as what happened last time as we had the same hospital number, I know I am rather pretty but even I cannot pass for a young girl anymore
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about the free roll promotion decision that didn't go my way.
well i went on strike on the Tuesday after the dtds firstly not playing then turned the heat up later in the week by calling my
cheer leader skills out in sympathy any way after i sent an e-mail on Friday where i asked if they even realised I was on
strike they must have realised the sky community is better off with db than without and a gesture of goodwill was
enough to get the blockade lifted.
well I could set a ddt record on Monday the last two weeks i have finished stone last both times, I think we did briefly
share a table a couple of times on Monday I was struggling to keep more that one table open at a time it was like a marxs
brothers film that didn't help.
on a brighter note I cashed on Tuesday and Wednesday to the tune of about £25 quid and am in front on the month.
take care and i hope we can share a table on Monday for a bit longer a final would be nice dbxxx
Tuesday 31st, or April 7th, Tom?