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Some People.

TheEdge949TheEdge949 Member Posts: 5,686
Well I'm either going to get a serious point across here or come over as a bit of a knob.

Many of you know that I am passionate about changing peoples lives for the better and as such one of the ways I try to help is by volunteering at my Churches foodbank. This is something that not only helps people in real need but also enables us to signpost them to other resources which may help them to give themselves and their families a better life.

Now this next bit is where the Christian values that I try to observe, follow and live by get tested.

We have just been informed by the National charity behind the scheme that we should pay attention to the way that the food is bagged has caused some clients embarrassment.

WTFF. Yes that's right folks, people come to the Church, receive the food, but then are embarrassed that they have to tote it home in Aldi, Lidl, or other less upmarket carrier bags.

Now I kind of revert to the old Mark at this point. Firstly as supermarkets no longer give out the old carrier bags we have to source the "bag for life" or 20p heavy duty bags by either scavenging at recycling points or by asking Church members to donate their old ones. Secondly the people who use our service have been referred by either the local authority, a charity authorised to do so or social services, so not exactly your average Waitrose or M and S customer. Finally where do these people think 80% of the donations come from in the first place, most is own brand value stuff and let's be honest we would rather get 4 tins of beans at 25p than 1 tin at 90p. It means we can feed more people and that's what we are about.

I understand that maybe hauling a weeks worth of food for a family of 5 in thrift shop carriers may lower ones self esteem but to try and say that it affects your mental health and causes embarrassment is just another example of how we are pandering to the boo hoo culture now prevalent in our society.

If you do donate please keep it up, now more than ever it's so necessary. If you don't please consider doing so, if everybody donated one cheap own label item it would make a massive difference to people in crisis.

Take care, stay safe, love you all.

Comments

  • lucy4lucy4 Member Posts: 7,939
    To use a food bank I assume that the person must be in severe need,to then complain about the 'service' which they receive beggars belief. Or are those who are embarrassed about being seen with Aldi,Lidl bags not really the people who food banks were set up for? The ones who manipulate the system to access food banks whilst not really needing their help.
  • EssexphilEssexphil Member Posts: 8,780
    If it is just people complaining about the make of bag, then zero sympathy.

    However, I believe that some of the complaints relate to the packaging making it clear that they have received assistance from a foodbank. I can understand why people would not want that broadcast to the neighbours.
  • TheEdge949TheEdge949 Member Posts: 5,686
    Its a difficult one to answer. Certainly I have been aware of clients arriving in nice cars, wearing £300 worth of sportswear, sporting a £200 watch and the latest phone but fortunately the decision regarding the elegibilty of the client to receive the help is not a part of my remit. No two peoples circumstances or situations are the same.

    Are there those who blatently abuse the system. Yes of course but we cannot nor should we risk penalising the genuine cases because of a few fraudulent claims.

    Unfortunately it would appear that the complaints come from the more genuine cases who claim that whilst already feeling stigmatised for needing the foodbank then have their shame exposed by the need to use mismatched and often "cheap" supermarket bags to carry the food home in.

    We invited guests / clients to bring their own bags but that was an exercise in futility so unfortunately I shall be packing the items in whatever bags we have and if that causes a problem too bad.
  • Tikay10Tikay10 Member, Administrator, Moderator Posts: 169,670

    Wow.

    Donations should be accepted in whatever wrapping/bags they arrive in.
  • lucy4lucy4 Member Posts: 7,939
    Perhaps it should be a 'Bring your own bag' situation.
  • SidV79SidV79 Member Posts: 4,131
    Mark, I applaud your helping to feed those that cannot afford to feed themselves but it beggars (pun intended) belief that some of those are bellyaching about which supermarket carrier bag is used. A couple of people I know visit the foodbank regularly and both are very thankful that they are able to receive food from there otherwise they would be going hungry every month. Quoting a phrase I have heard many times in my life, "beggars cannot be choosers", it seems to me that these unfortunate people should be thankful of the donations that they receive so that they do not starve, rather than moaning about whatever carrier bag they have to take their free food home in.
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