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On the Bench

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  • mrsduckmrsduck Member Posts: 1,901
    edited August 2016
    Only just checking up on you, so sorry to hear the news about your wife x
  • BenchmarkBenchmark Member Posts: 297
    edited August 2016
    Thanks for support.

    I now genuinely believe it IS over. Doesn't make it much easier, but it does allow me to plan ahead. I'll be working on the financials this week. Poll Tax / Tax Credit / Gas / Electric / Phone, etc. To a certain degree, I may be slightly better off. Having a good solid financial base will help me to deal with the other 'stuff'.

    Still plodding along.
  • MaggiesdadMaggiesdad Member Posts: 439
    edited August 2016
    Keep your head up fella. This song helped me a lot as I always imagined myself back on top of the world and dancing to this ON MY OWN at my daughter's wedding reception....probably says too much about me really..https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=POIIGYt5RlE .........it seems a long way from who I am now though.......
  • BenchmarkBenchmark Member Posts: 297
    edited August 2016
    Still in one piece.
  • Darkangel7Darkangel7 Member Posts: 2,585
    edited August 2016
    Glad to hear it. Keep going one step at a time.
  • MaggiesdadMaggiesdad Member Posts: 439
    edited August 2016
    In Response to Re: On the Bench:
    Still in one piece.
    Posted by Benchmark
    how are things with you lad
     
  • BenchmarkBenchmark Member Posts: 297
    edited August 2016
    Still in one piece.

    Have decided to give up hanging on and focus on myself and the kids instead.

    Changed over all the bank stuff, so I'm financially secure.

    Just need to remember what I talked about before.

    Thanks for support.
  • ajmiltonajmilton Member Posts: 1,458
    edited August 2016
    Good for you benchy lad, 
    onwards and upwards glad your ok 
    Now keep posting your poker funny stuff, love it n

    Regards Alan (don't post on your thread much, but always read it)
  • BenchmarkBenchmark Member Posts: 297
    edited August 2016
    Much appreciated.

    I'm now starting with a blank piece of paper, which I'll be filling with what I (and the kids) want to do.

    Next year's UKPC at DTD is top of the pile. Although I'm not too sure how good Katie is at three-betting...
  • MaggiesdadMaggiesdad Member Posts: 439
    edited August 2016
    In Response to Re: On the Bench:
    Much appreciated. I'm now starting with a blank piece of paper, which I'll be filling with what I (and the kids) want to do. Next year's UKPC at DTD is top of the pile. Although I'm not too sure how good Katie is at three-betting...
    Posted by Benchmark
    Daughters will 3 bet bluff you all day........
  • MaggiesdadMaggiesdad Member Posts: 439
    edited September 2016
    In Response to Re: On the Bench:
    In Response to Re: On the Bench : Daughters will 3 bet bluff you all day........
    Posted by Maggiesdad
    Hello Mr Bench
    It would be great to know that you are still ok and getting on with life even if this game is not a factor........if anyone knows Mr Bench, check how he is.......
  • MaggiesdadMaggiesdad Member Posts: 439
    edited September 2016
    In Response to Re: On the Bench:
    In Response to Re: On the Bench : Hello Mr Bench It would be great to know that you are still ok and getting on with life even if this game is not a factor........if anyone knows Mr Bench, check how he is.......
    Posted by Maggiesdad
    Bump....

  • BenchmarkBenchmark Member Posts: 297
    edited September 2016
    Thanks for your concern.

    Things haven't changed a great deal. I'm trying to move forward. It has been more difficult than I thought.

    Fortunately, I have my kids and continuing support from my mum and my mum-in-law.

    I am slowly getting back to myself, but there is still some way to go. I know I'll get there eventually and wouldn't wish this on anyone.

    Bench.
  • stokefcstokefc Member Posts: 7,877
    edited September 2016
    you keep marching benchy lad it will get better
  • mumsiemumsie Member Posts: 8,175
    edited September 2016
    Thanks for progress reports, we are routing for you.
  • BenchmarkBenchmark Member Posts: 297
    edited September 2016
    Okayyy...

    So a divorce it is. Not entirely unexpected. Naturally, there are issues that cannot be discussed in an open forum. There have been a couple of other setbacks, not related to my marriage, that have not helped matters.

    However, myself and my remaining family are in (relatively) good health and are looking to the future.


    Think I might have a go at the forum games on Monday night.

    Bench.
  • MaggiesdadMaggiesdad Member Posts: 439
    edited September 2016
    In Response to Re: On the Bench:
    Okayyy... So a divorce it is. Not entirely unexpected. Naturally, there are issues that cannot be discussed in an open forum. There have been a couple of other setbacks, not related to my marriage, that have not helped matters. However, myself and my remaining family are in (relatively) good health and are looking to the future. Think I might have a go at the forum games on Monday night. Bench.
    Posted by Benchmark
    Good to see you are still around. Just try to focus on the practical things that you have to do and of course your children. Take care 

  • CATCH-22CATCH-22 Member Posts: 270
    edited September 2016
    Been wantin to post but not really sure what to say. Went thru similar havin support of kids n family deffo helps, but gut renchin situation to be in. When it comes outa the blue what can you do ? Ten years down the line still hurts but hey ho ive got me kids n love em n pretty sure they love me (teenagers so who really knows lol). Anyway treasure them n be happy cause as monty python says
  • CATCH-22CATCH-22 Member Posts: 270
    edited September 2016
    No body expects the Spanish inquisition
  • CATCH-22CATCH-22 Member Posts: 270
    edited September 2016
    Been wantin to post but not really sure what to say. Went thru similar havin support of kids n family deffo helps, but gut renchin situation to be in. When it comes outa the blue what can you do ? Ten years down the line still hurts but hey ho ive got me kids n love em n pretty sure they love me (teenagers so who really knows lol). Anyway treasure them n be happy cause as monty python says
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